NYSWCAA Service Award Acceptance Speech
Terry Wansart,
Hunter College
Director of Athletics, Recreation and Intramurals
Good Afternoon. It is a pleasure being
here with all of you.
I would like to thank NYSWCAA, the
selection committee, the Hunter College Athletic staff, and Joan and Vicky for
their continued leadership.
I was not aware of the nomination by Lauren Caiaccia, Hunter Colleges Associate
Athletic Director, better known as the enthusiastic one, until I received an
email from Joan, which asked me to fill out a form that included:
List of NYSWCAA committees and offices that
I had held or served on
List of research completed, articles
published, speaking engagements given, teams coached and athletic programs
administered;
List of anything else to identify your support of NYSWCAA and Womens Athletics.
Initially I was overwhelmed. Then I become reflective and finished the exercise.
I asked myself,What have I done? Has it been enough?
Like many of you, I did not have a real handle on what I had accomplished.
It was humbling and staggering at the same time. I then, as the memories
kept flooding out asked myself, How did I do all of that? We all just tend
to do what we have to do in support of our passion.
I was recruited to NYSWCAA by Barbara Chessler, formerly of Manhattanville, now
at Yale. She needed someone to replace her as the Sports Chair. She
asked. I accepted. She said, bring your van, there are some boxes. Without
much thought, I did what I was told. After carrying boxes and boxes of
files and t-shirts, I asked myself, What have I gotten myself into? Naïve
and willing to take on this challenge, what I got was a great opportunity.
An opportunity to share ideas, debate issues, and observe the expertsin
operation. The ones before me, my mentors, some former Service Award
Recipients, as well, clearly paved the way and welcomed me. Some of them were:
Sandy Weeden, (focused/no-nonsense)
Jeanne Mathias, (flexible)
Charlie Roberts, (a broad viewpoint and brilliant)
Betsy Bruce, (organized/detail oriented)
Dee Bogard, (experienced in everything)
And coaches, Frank Short, Joan Sitterly, and Teri Tiso, who I tried to beat
every season, mostly failing. Oh, but I loved the opportunity.
Sitting beside these people benefited me, and hopefully I had a positive effect
on them, too. They and many others gave me a strong foundation to build
on. The most apparent was the concept: Agree to Disagree.This was
introduced and played out in many heated debates during annual meetings.
Each one of you in this room has experienced differences.
As a young professional, I thought there were two ways:
ONE the right way; which was always my way, or at
least I thought
they were. And,
TWO the wrong way, which was everyone elses
point of view- or at
least I thought they were.
This was the typical young professionals inexperience showing. And just like in
the TV Show, Survivorthere were alliances. Strong Alliances! Half
of the room was for the right way, and the other side of the room was for
theirright way. Conflict, what we all thrive on, right?
After many years of problem solving, the Concept of: We can agree to disagree, evolved
to what I use today.
The evolved concept is Rational good intended people WILL/MUST disagree to get
to the best solution for all.
We are all different, varied, basically a unique bunch. For example:
The association is made up of professionals: from Public and Private
Institutions, that clearly is different; urban/suburban/rural, different even
still; and some of our programs are nationally driven, while others are trying
to be competitive locally. We have different missions.
Personally, we are white, black, brown, and many more.
We are gay, straight, and bisexual, whether you want to accept that or not.
We are Jewish, Christian, Protestant, and many more. And we are male and
female; young and experienced. We should celebrate; even welcome our
differences, whatever they are. Be receptive of open dialogand differences
of opinion, which aids in getting to a cooperative solution. This in turn
will improve our mission, which is to strengthen womens athletics in NYSWCAA and
the NCAA.
This has been my observation and lessons from you, the family of NYSWCAA,
whether from former members or the current ones in this room. We must
continue to work together to move womens athletics forward.
In closing, I would like to publicly thank two people who gave me additional
values that benefited me in serving NYSWCAA and Womens Athletics. These values
are: Constant work ethic, attention to detail, and self discipline. I get these
from my father. He supported me as a high school and collegiate athlete, a
collegiate coach, athletic administrator and a recreational athlete. He always
had something positive to say about my jobwith constructive feedback to make me
better and never settling for mediocre.
Other values are: patience, humor, and perspective. I get these from my mother.
For example, one of my teams had just lost in a crucial game. I was upset. The
team waited in the van, as I paced outside with my father. When I went to
the van to talk to the team about the loss, I opened the door to find my mother
sitting in the van, telling the team not to worry about what I say, You played
Great,she said (which they had) handing out brownies. I looked at her, the team
looked at me, I looked at the team and after an uncomfortable pause, we all
started laughing. Life lessons through sport and brownies. My mom gave me
perspective that day and continues to give me perspective daily.
Thanks Mom and Dad, and to all of your families and friends, who sacrifice for
you, which allows you to do what you love to do!
Hopefully, your meetings were productive and full of resolutions. Keep working
hard servicing the NYSWCAA. I am honored to have been recognized as the
Service Award recipient to this association, especially representing those
mentors who were named before me. I am truly honored.
Have a great afternoon.
Thank you.
Terry Wansart,
Hunter College
Director of Athletics, Recreation and Intramurals